The Pink Shirt, Part 1

Many, many years ago I had a pink shirt in my wardrobe.  It was a little too pink, the fabric was a little too heavy, and the shirt was a little too loose fitting.  And somehow it ended up with ballpoint pen marks on one of the sleeves.  So out it went.

I’ve been thinking again about making dress shirts in pastel colors – light green, yellow, blue, and pink.  And then I started seeing these little ads in my Facebook feed.

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I don’t recall if I did something to trigger them, or whether Facebook’s micro-targeting ad algorithm simply found me. I’ve ordered stuff from Brooks Brothers before, so it had a head start.

The bright pink shirt in the ad has been gnawing at my attention for weeks:

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I have it on authority that pink shirts are a fashionable item for men.  Carson Kressley, stylist from Queer Eye for the Straight Guy, writes in his seminal work Off the Cuff: The Guy’s Guide to Looking Good (2004):

I’ve said before that I love nothing more than a crisp pink oxford. There appears to be a misconception among my straight brethren that a straight man shouldn’t wear pink shirts because wearing pink makes you gay. I have an important news flash for you.

Wearing pink doesn’t make you gay.

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His photos don’t do much to help his case.  But, since I am already gay, this issue doesn’t concern me.

What I am not sure about is whether pink truly is my color. The Male Pattern Boldness blog introduced me to a wonderful chestnut from the ’80s, Carole Jackson’s book Color Me Beautiful. Jackson divides people up by “seasons” according to their skin tones and prescribes color palettes that work well, as well as colors to avoid.

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I have both the women’s and men’s version of this book.  I have tried to do the color self-assessments and failed miserably. I have no idea if I’m a Spring or a Summer or an Autumn or whatever.

But here’s the pink fabric I am going to use for the project. It’s a high quality cotton from Britex Fabrics.  I’m not sure if it’s a Pima or an Egyptian cotton, but it’s certainly priced like one.  I know it’s not a Sea Island cotton, because they were at a price tier way beyond even this fabric. I bought it with a 20% discount coupon from the Bay Area Sewists meeting at Britex on cottons and linens.

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For the buttons, I recently received this wonderful gift from my friend Linda, an avid sewist and crafter – a selection of exquisite mother-of-pearl buttons from the Tennessee River.

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Linda owned and operated a jewelry shop for several years, and attended many gem and mineral shows.  She tells me the buttons are from the Tennessee Pearl River Farm, founded by  John Latendresse, the “father of cultured freshwater pearls”.  His farm was the foundation of the freshwater pearl industry in the United States. Sadly, that business in the United States is not doing as well as it used to.

Next Time

We’ll dive into style details.

10 thoughts on “The Pink Shirt, Part 1

  1. David Coffin

    My first BrBros button-down oxford was pink, a burly fabric and a bloused fit, and I loved it. My 16-yo self went into the main downtown Boston store thinking it would HAVE to be the classic, mysteriously dark, oxford blue…but it was obvious once I got there that only pink would be worthy of the occasion; a moment of self-recognition. Both were just as likely to be seen on the backs of all my fancy-prep-school classmates, but pink was clearly the more lively, distinctive and imaginative choice, as I could only afford one, unlike most of my cohorts who mostly had closets full of nothing else, in every available shade and pattern.

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    1. mportuesisf Post author

      Veronik,

      That’s a really beautiful shirt. The craftmanship is superb, and it looks great on your husband. Thanks for sharing; it’s always good for me to have an ideal to aspire to :)

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  2. John Yingling

    I have never been a fan of those color classification systems. The best way to determine what colors look best on you is to actually hold up the color or fabric to your face and see if it pleases you or a third party. Remember, the type of light strongly affects how color is perceived; a shade of maroon will look one way under the fabric stores fluorescent lighting, and then be a raspberry red under natural, bright sunlight. Skin tone and eye color will largely determine what colors will flatter your appearance. My ethnic mix is darker Filipino and Pennsylvania Caucasian, my skin tone would be like permanent white guy suntan. I look great in nearly every color but Kelly green, it makes me look jaundiced, very scary. Do any of those systems predict that effect? No, I found out by experimentation. Did I mention Asians look good in black? Cliched, but true, so my wardrobe is basically black and white. It makes it easy to dress in the morning and shop for coordinating clothes or fabric later in the day.

    As for pink shirts, it’s not the gay reference, but the preppie association that bothers me. Who wants to look like they graduated from Princeton? Well, maybe that wasn’t the best example, but you know what I mean!!!

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    1. mportuesisf Post author

      John,

      I’m not sure I buy into the whole “Color Me Beautiful” thing myself. I guess I’ll never know if it works for me, because I can’t figure out where I fit into their system.

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  3. Josie

    Hi Michael,

    Love the story, pink shirt why not? Caucasian, blue eye man look great on a pink shirt, IMHO. Heck, for that matter anyone. And the buttons are marvelous. If I ever meet you I will have to share/show some of my button collection with you.
    On a personal level, does wearing man jeans make me gay? I do purchase man jeans from time to time. The reason, they fit better, and are cheaper.
    Thanks for sharing. Hope to see your shirt soon

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    1. mportuesisf Post author

      Josie, I don’t think anything you wear makes you gay. If you want to wear guy jeans, go for it! I like the look of women wearing menswear.

      I just had that Carson Kressley book on my shelf, and I knew he is a big fan of pink shirts.

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